Are there any apparent signs that your husband is cheating if you don't know 100% yet? My husband ALWAYS wants to go to his brothers house and stay gone over there all the time like up in to the hours of the night?
There are many signs to look for: If he keeps his cell on vibrate or hidden, unfamiliar names in his contact list, not returning/answering calls from you, etc.. Also, when questioned, does he get really defensive? Having your defenses up is a sign of nervousness. If he is nervous, he will get defensive, or blow you off period (meaning he says 'whatever' to everything, for example). If he doesnt invite you to go to his bro's home with him, thats a sign 2. Pay attention to his actions when he does return home...is he showering to possibly get the smell of anotha woman off of him? Does he get cleaned up nicely to visit 'his bro'? Is he being srangely more affectionate with you? Sometimes cheaters feel guilty and will try to bestow more affection to their significant other so as to throw them off. Is their always a reason for him being late? Car trouble, traffic, etc...excuses get old after a while. If you ask to go with him a few times, and he always makes excuses y u cant, thats anotha sign. If u ask to go with him and he changes his mind about going (for whatever reason he gives u), thats a sure sign...if he was set to go until u asked to go, and then changes his mind- thats suspicious. Do u check the mileage on his car? lol, I do. If you r really worried, u can buy a GPS system for his car and have it installed without his knowing.
Obviously, theres the idea of a private investigator, but that gets pricey, and us women can usually do what they signs of husband cheatersdo- sometimes better, lol..
If he doesnt pick up 4 u, try callin from an unknown number to c if he pix up for that call...jus dont call within minutes of calling from your phone- he will put 2 n 2 togther. I'd wait 20 min or so. If u have a car of your own, follow him. Go to his bro's after he leaves. c if his car is there. If it is, come up with an excuse as to y u just dripped by, lol..n see whats going on inside. If they act weird when u come in, thats a sign that someone might b hiding lol..
That all being said- tell him how important it is for him to answer his phones for emergency reasons even.
U can always hire someone to hit on him...it works. I paid a girl $25 to come on to my man, lol, and he passed that test thankfully...but many of my previous men did not. This wont actually catch him with who he has been with, but it wiil let u know what he is capable of with other women as well. Good Luck.
Airplanes ,they take off ... seems you need a plane ticket!
Getting phone calls he wont let you hear, not letting you see or answer his phone or e-mails, any type of girl stuff in his car you have envever seen before, and sneaking off and getting all pissed if you dont let him out of the house whenever he wants
Chances are that if you think he's a cheater he is my first husband to me over six months to prove that he was cheating on me save your self the pain ask him out right or go with him to his brothers house see for yourself what he does.
Make a surprise visit once he's been at his brother's for a few hours. Make sure he's really there. Take some cookies or something so it doesn't look suspicious. Just tell them you stopped over to drop off some goodiesigns of husband cheaterss for them and say hi. If he's not there, call him and ask him why. If he gives you a lame story, confront him. Also, you can ask to see his cell phone. If he puts up a fight, then that's a clue. Look through his recent calls and texts. Start with that. If you don't find anything, then let it go. Cheaters are always found out. It just takes time.
Well run a little trap on him. Maybe he's building a boat.
herpes, and not sex drive with oyu, suspicious behavior liek not being home at night or phone numbers he cant explain in his phone, SMELL AND SNOOP AAROUND HIS CAR! if he is hanging with another woman she would most likely be hanging out in his car.
If you have the gut feeling he is, trust your gut feeling. If he is that means he's lost the emotional connection with you. Look into your relationship and try to figure out if you are communicating with him. Most recently there was some research done on why men cheat, and the results were the fact that they were not really looking for sex, it was the emotional connection they were looking for that was lost in their own relationship, naturally the sex thing was the result but it wasn't the reason.
Suddenly more concerned about his appearance
Working out at the gym more
New cologne
New clothes
Working late
Increase in business travel
they start acting different then they ever did . they become sneaky and stay more to themselves communication is limited to their spouse. they will be going places from time to time. and when confronted they will become defensive and feel like they are the victim
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